Traditional Wedding - The B Word!

Sooooo lets discuss the B word, yes BUDGET!!!

So he popped the question..you said YES (screamed, cried, laughed and checked out the ring just to make sure it was the one you kept "accidentally" sending to his What'sApp)! lol

Now lets get down to real deal. Who is paying for this Traditional Wedding and where is the money gonna come from????

Hmmm, this subject is often avoided like 'okra combined with rice' but the truth be  told it is one of the most important things you need to discuss and clarify before moving onto the next step of the planning.

Tradition-Ally the brides family drop the majority of the funds but these days couples often fund their own marriage ceremonies with the help of parents friends and family. (based on individual circumstances)

Setting a budget must certainly come first guys... you need to know how much things cost now oooo; especially with the whole "its dollar, its dollar" phrase going around. Even the lovely mama selling pepper is complaining about "dollar"

You need to do your research on what venues are charging, catering,  Video man, Photographer, Venue styling, DJ or Live Band, lets not even start with how much makeup artists are demanding hmmm. Sounds overwhelming ??? (You could leave that to us to handle)... i have to advertise now init!!

But seriously your budget is KEY! it has to be a realistic budget too, not based on invisible income or promises from family and friends; who may have every intention to support but anything can happen which could lead to them not being able to fulfill their promise . Trust me guys I'm talking from experience... (that's a story for another day)

Do Not, I repeat Do Not leave yourself short , as unexpected expenses will always arise.... Set your budget with a miscellaneous fund for unforeseen things.

Sit down as a couple look at the money you have both saved (assuming you have savings), discuss with parents what they are willing to contribute (if they are...that's another story) and look at where you can also cut cost.

I know every girl dreams of the best most beautiful fairy tale for her wedding but remember there is a life after that day!!!

Though you should look at ways to cut cost... look at the things that are really not needed or too excessive! i don't mean cut back on the food so that you can book the most expensive hotel .... you get me right?

Lets discuss ... What 3 things do you think are the most important aspect of the Traditional Wedding DAY... Comment below....